Today, we pause to honour the life of Steve Silberman, the journalist, science author, and fierce autistic advocate, who has passed away at 66.
Steve’s 2015 book, NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and the Future of Neurodiversity, rewrote the rules on neurodiversity. His work dismantled the prevailing doom narrative and prioritised the voices of those who needed to be heard: us, the autistic individuals.
Steve was a Deadhead to his very core. His love for the Grateful Dead was a second life, one he lived with as much devotion as his advocacy. Whether he was writing liner notes for the band’s albums, penning Skeleton Key: A Dictionary for Deadheads, or appreciating their music, Steve embodied the heart of the Dead.
Steve’s passing leaves a void in many communities. His husband, Keith Karraker, shared the painful news with the world on Bluesky:
Hi everyone. Sorry to start your day with bad news. It's my very sad duty to inform you all that @stevesilberman.bsky.social , my wonderful husband and best friend, passed away last night. I'll have more info later. For now, please take a moment to remember his kindness, humor, wisdom, and love.
— Ward Q. Normal (@wardqnormal.bsky.social) Aug 29, 2024 at 23:46
David Lemieux, the Grateful Dead’s official archivist, spoke for many when he remembered Steve as “one of the brightest lights” he’d ever met.
In a Facebook post last August, Steve left us with a message that feels especially poignant now: “When I die, please don’t say that I’ve crossed over into the spirit realm, gone to the Other Side, moved on to a better place… Just selfishly or selflessly use my own impermanence to WAKE UP to your own.”
Steve Silberman’s journey may have ended, but his impact is eternal. His work, his wisdom, and his unwavering commitment to justice and joy will continue to empower and guide us. Rest in peace, Steve, and thank you for everything. We’re awake.
